Kelisa, change engine oil and repair light and lighter port for 400rm supper expensive
Nowadays I see young parent came into the food court to eat lunch with their baby. Baby like less than 1 years old sit I to the baby chair straight away the mother pull out iPad to “distract” the poor baby.
This is so that the parent can have time to take their meal or deal with noise and unwanted crying.
This reminds me about my childhood when we do not have internet when young, our parent just ditch us at grandparent place so that both parent can go working to so call earn enough to bring back to the family. I think all these contribute to detachment issue. When we grow up we often ask why is this world so unfair and we are not given a choice but to put us thru this.
Now, with internet so popular. Giving iPad is like feeding a soft drug to children which will create addiction earlier than us. When they get older they will also ask why give this to me when I am young. I didn’t ask for it. But human will always take the easier way out.
Dream of flying to Spain with Jackie. It was due to a very special ticket discount of $22. SG to Spain discount.
I realise in the dream I am a very messy person. Disorientated and very unorganised. The mind is all over the shop. The dream is not very continuous and will tend to hop from one moment to another moment.
We met with 2 couple outside a casino and started to hug each other. Jackie went hugging with men and women until they fall down on the floor. These 2 couples I think they come from Asia as they can speak Chinese so we recognise them once they alight from the bus.
The story goes like this. We are very excited on a news that there is a ticket sales of less than $50 to fly to Spain so we connected on a phone with some people on the phone. Initially it was a normal call and later we convert the call to a FaceTime. The person is a thin female hippie with tattoos in her late 40s.
The call was very messy and loud so in order to hear the person clearly we have to fly to Spain to find the person. The next moment the sense moved to Spain and we tried to talk to the person but she was interrupted by other task on hand. I remember the whole Spain experience only have casino, bars, clubs and nothing else in my dream.
Then what we pay in the casino and bars is very affordable as in comparable with Singapore so we ask ourselves why not we don’t go back and travel longer in Europe then. I remember I didn’t bring anything just a shirt, jean and a paper and pen of course wallet.
Later near the end I realise the dream become lucid and kinda can control the dream if I want to but I didn’t push on. This dream happen at my dad JB place.
Today we just went to petaling Jaya to view the manual kelisa gino. For the price of 9k on the road including transfer and inspection cost. It was down from the 9.8k initially quoted on Mudah. Since its manual so it will be slightly cheaper as no many people like manual car. We decided to bite the bullet and just buy straight cash from the dealer.
Insurance we went for 3rd party fire and thief which cost us $380 without NCD. 3rd party allows other to claim on your insurance company already. For the machine price of 6.8k average, insurancer does not want to cost cause it’s too cheap also. Road tax $20 and top up Touch and go card for $50. Bought a handphone stand for $32.
I left with a balance of $500 for touch screen music player and others. Tmr we plan to go JPJ to get the vehicle card.
Got a tire lock on the highway when I speed a little and jammed on the brake. Need to be careful in the future. Lucky skid forward only without freewheeling the back tire.
All for less than 10k ringgit. $3,037sgd still got change.
Today went to Chinatown to visit aunty. Since my mum wake I had not been visiting her for more than a year. Feel so guilty. When I sort out my mum photo album ytd then I realise she is my other mum. Or the closest I can call a mum liao. Therefore, I should really need to take care of her. I will want to put in more effort. So today I went down with Jackie and Clement to visit her for a short while.
Bring her to Chinatown Point to eat Toast Box and coffee. Order ham cheese set for her and I think she enjoyed the meal. Simple people like her needs very little to be contented I think. Simple food like Toast Box will give a lot of happiness. As we who have work and what not will overtime feel Toast Box is less of a treat. I start to want more and more and we are unable to feel happy for all these small little things.
What impress me is that she is able to read all the Chinese words on the zodiac board. She hasn’t went school but she self taught Chinese by reading magazine and read subtitle on Channel 8. Some more she is intel challenged. Very impressive how people are picking up knowledge. If you want we can almost achieve anything.
Lastly I was thinking to get her a phone to play tik Tok. But I scare to get her addicted to all these social media. Maybe by not having all these tech is something of blessing. I think she is kinda boring just to watch TV everyday and all days. I thinking a
Phone with tik tok may benefit her but now I think I shouldn’t introduce all these to her is better.
Today also met Liting and her sister Limin at Chinatown to eat fish head. Her sister is a warden officer and she is so alike to me.
-No friends,
-No empathy to people
-Either right or wrong but no grey area
-Don’t want to have children.
So on and so no. Very similar to me. I was thinking is it of our defence mechanism that made us become a super “I” person.
Liting mention a verse that impact me very deeply that what empowers her to overcome obstacles is love. I start to reflect on how this statement can apply to me. I try to think of an event that propel me forward is by way of love. I cannot think of any.
2 event obstacles comes to my mind, one losing love one and the other one is near death experience in Vietnam. Although both event I can think back and realise that there are people who love me are around to give me support. But this is not what I remember the incident for. What really drive me forward is using pain and suppressions. How I manage obstacles is to bite the pain and pull thru and once I got used to pain then pain is no longer painful. Apparently there are people although not a lot think akin to me.
Jackie cook lunch again. Clean and healthy meal again. Someday I weighted myself I am 73kg going to 75kg. Really suck. I need to do more exercise but now is like moonson period the rain had not being stopping for 2 days straight. I never had seen so much rain fall in Singapore before.
Healthy meal of saba fish and Cai Xin
Today we do spring cleaning. I moved the newly bought metal shelf and move it to the kitchen. Sort out of leather craft tools box and clean up more of my mum stuff. I even sort out all of my mum’s photo albums and compile them to only 3 books. This will be all my physical photo moving forward.
I don’t know if I still working when will I never work on the photo album. I doubt my mum will even work on her photo as well. But today I spend the whole day sorting out her photo and I am loving it. Slowly take all out and select. Keep track of numbers of slot and then slowly fix it back via chronological order. I am really grateful that I do not have work at the moment so I can do simple and memorable task like this.
I had a feeling that my life purpose in life is to back track on my ancestor, grandma and so on. Those things that they had left for me, I do need time to look into it, assess the worth and think how to generate value out of it. Those value that was not enjoyed previously by these owner, I felt my job is to use up the value if not these item will always be bought and stored without any purpose other than passing it down to your children and then they will have a lot more things of a burden. You know things that was passed down by parent is hard to 断舍离. It really takes effort to let go of these things.
Packed for Clement to stay for a short period of time
Today Jackie cooked simple meal. Luncheon meat and stream veg and brown rice. Oh. Still have the microwave chicken tight and mushroom. Still raining whole day. We decided to go out to walk.
Then we stumble over Collin’s having CNY promotion. A barramundi while fish for $16 and wagyu beef set for $21. Beer one pint for $5.80. Super cheap!!
Collin suddenly dinner
Went to Jurong Westgate and went Nitori to buy a floor mat for my bathroom. For $12.90. Then also Jackie decided to upgrade our old mattress from origin mattress to just futon. So we bought $119 for the nitori one.
Notori futon we buying to replace our origin mattress
This spec looks nice, wanna buy the next time, save it first
After that head to foot locker retail shop to buy a basketball shoes. Since I will be playing basketball on a regular basis. It’s is for health and safety that I invest in a proper basketball shoes. I need to stay active with at least 3 times of 30mins moderate exercise therefore now i had been actively playing basketball weekly.
Went up to Lazada to buy the LCD monitor arms. 2 arm for 2 monitor one F160 is selling $48 online with free laptop holder. So I think it’s cheap online. We will be waiting for tmr to cart out as there is a $15 voucher to snatch at noon 12 tmr.
Today rain the whole day. So I cannot play basketball again. Jackie spend the day doing leather, notebook and a cat figure to sell with our scrap leathers. I spend my time to install back the T line brake lever on my 3sixty.
Yesterday we went to Jurong East to collect the T line brake lever. After that we went shopping in IMM and I end up buying a new speaker for my computer. Creative sound blaster RG3. Sound is not bad. I need the bass for movie night on my desktop.
Today I super happy as I got my MacBook Air adaptor. Next time if we fly oversea I can bring MacBook Air without the needs to bring the power brick already.
This week also bought a metal shelf for $50. The metal is thin so cannot put too much stuff or I guess it will bend.
We also have been discussing that after chinese new year in mid Feb we shall start of 2025 travelling plan. Initially thinking to go Chang Mai but we found a better route. In Feb and March, basically Hanoi, China Nanning and Osaka is all in the winter. Weather is between 25 - 10 degree range. This time if we were to fly to nanning from SG is $135 and then from China fly to Osaka is $120. This route will be better over if we fly to Hanoi or Japan directly from Singapore.
We are really contemplating to bike travel in Hanoi, Nanning and Japan. These place is very bike friendly. I am starting to see bike trailer and big bag to pack brompton thru the airport and train station.
This week is a very productive week as Jackie came back from KL. She usually have to go back to Malaysia once every other month and on special holiday like Christmas for example.
Our week revolve in building up a checklist to be done in a month, and then we will do one item a day. Extremely not stressful at all. Like example we checked buying the metal rack and install it at the living room.
Today we buy couple of plumbing fixtures and starts to repair my old water system at home. Like shower head leaking water, washing machine leaking water and toilet old bidet also leaking water. Since recently there are climate voucher so we bought some and fix it.
I considered myself to have earned $170 revenue for the day. Why? Because I had found out that plumber will charge $70 for the first fixture and $50 for the subsequence. I repair 3 head today so instead of paying plumber $170 which is a saving for me, therefore its like I had earned the money like that.
Knowing how to repair simple things like electrical, plumbing and drilling holes on walls is really a need for renaissance man. If anyone like to learn you can always volunteer in repair kopitiam. Knowing how to repair brompton also can save a lot.
After watching 我们恋爱吧5. I started another of my favorite variety show 令人心动的Offer6. Their trend are only filming mostly lawyers intern / architect intern. Both career is very 卷。Often with absolute deadline, unreasonable working hours etc. Therefore I guess there are so many people who wants to enter the industry primarily for the status and money.
I am sharing above clip cause at the 7mins mark. There is a very brief but concise of a court case. It is very fundamental and I love keeping a copy for my future reference as knowing how some stuff work briefly will have a lot of good benefit for us.
I was only briefly introduced to the juridical system when I follow the johnny dep and Amber case. All the objections and what can be objected are explain in this video above.
When I am watching this video and the intern doing all the paper work and writing proposal for client or to the court judges they present the paper or case in a very similar way like how I used to do credit writing for trade in my past job.
Credit writing was a very good corporate writing and can train me on how to structure my arguement to the credit officer. Too bad I had got more time to learn the rope for credit writing. I do enjoy writing you know. It quite challenging as I am not good at writing structure sentences at all. But I can see myself being very proficient in credit writing if given another 2 more years in the business. It is not difficult, you just have to keep learning from my boss, senior and refers to other people with good cases put up. End of the day, given enough effort I believe everyone is able to do it.
People might find that being a lawyer might seem difficult, however it is the same. Just lawyer needs a lot of law background but I can also argue credit writing also needs a lot of trade knowledge from all business nature. I don't envy people with degree or master. Given enough time and effort, I believe everyone also can do a master. It is not really that difficult.
Jackie and I had left corporate life officially in this year. While she converted to freelancing and I had started my trading. (Trading time for happiness). This is not an easy steps for her and also she got into 7kg travelling so that our travelling time and cost can be kept at a minimum.
We had spent the whole year travelling (旅居）Asia thru places like Kulai (Malaysia), Nha Trang, Hai Phong, Hanoi, Ha Giang, Sapa (Vietnam) Ping Xiang, Naning (China) and Osaka, Kobe, Kamikawa (Japan). This year can said to be our 高光时刻. This kinda lifestyle might happen like once in a life time and I am glad we both enjoyed ourselves. I personally like Ha Giang, Vietnam the most due to the mixture of cost, view and experience.
All these lovely moments was well documented on our Youtube Channel (Short). Having a channel allows us to both learn some soft skills like filming and editing. But most importantly just like having this blog. A place to store our memories. Of course our story telling on the channel needs to improve but that will comes naturally as we do more clips. Remember we don't have a KPI to fulfil.
I completed 2 interior design projects on a part time basis. Although I only handles in the sales portions and I decided that I really want to spend more time to do execution or site supervision as I can learn a lot of handyman skill in electrical and plumbing specifically. Maybe in the further?
I also re passed my M5 paper which I now can be licensed but I decides to sit on it for another year cause I am not clear if I have the time to do all these.
I also passed by Class 2B again. Can have the option to be like my father riding over to JB to stay but I also not really looking to ride anytime soon as well. Now priority is still working on Alza for camping van trip in Kulai.
Which video I think the most, and why?
大马生活家 was one of the friend we got to know over Youtube and we had a lot to learn from his experience in growing the channel. We also have to overcome some negative comments online but well, love it or hate it, people always are quick to conclude so just allows other to have their own opinion. 课题分离 we just need to learn to see things objectively and not let others affect our mood :)
Well, I am really good at "被讨厌的勇气“ if any one is met with difficulties can come to me. I have a good way to always feel positive and happy regardless of external factors.
Last day of work and celebrate Jackie last day
Mai is the first person we befriend in our touring journey
Catching up with Sandy and Tracy after so many years later
Jackie got exposed to leathercraft and now planning for our pay forward program
The best loft we stay while oversea surprise to be in Nanning
Never expect that I can backpack to Japan with slipper during winter
Which books I read in 2024?
Die with zero - Help me to really learn to spend money correctly on things that produce memory dividend. It is a very unique financial advise book which encourage you to spend money which I need some advise on. Saving is easy but spending is a problem for me. Fortunately, my better half Jackie is good at buying premiere items. Those item is slightly more expensive but tends to be the correct stuff and both of us do really enjoy these purchases. Example, Brompton Bicycle, coffee grinder, Cafelet Robot and the decision to go Japan travel. Although I paid more on these item, but the healthy benefit, long term saving and memory dividend is very rich. Thanks Jackie :)
What is the things that need to improve?
For health, 2024 I started to play basketball as a sport to improve my health, I hope to be able to stay active for coming 2025. I strive to have healthy and painless life experiences.
Personal growth, I would like to improve on communication. Better communication, articulation and story telling. 语言 is something very important in huamanity. I always poor in presenting myself correctly. Credit writing in my previous job really gave me good basic for corporate writing.
Menal wise, I love to find a passion item. Leaning towards, social work or nature like gardening or leathercraft. If not my micro retirement is going to be very bored and unable to get into flow. Furthermore, me and jackie will start running out of topic to talk :)
We will still be traveling for year 2025, as Jackie hasn't get travelling out of her system. It getting tiresome for me and love to touch a bit being more social. Life is great. I am happy and bless :)
However, 老王说他的主观意识很强。Today I come across this word so I google what does it mean and weather the word applies to me or not. Then I realise that I am also suitable to use this word. Let see what is the defination。 (Subjective consciousness)
How can I better manage my subjective consciousness so that I can blend in with others?
Maybe every time when someone gives an opinion or advise, rather than being dismissing them quickly. I should not be looking at their "HOW" level. I should go deeper and listen to their "WHY". Analysis is it something constructive? I think first is to listen more and talk lesser. Can we agree that we can have different opinion and view?
Or I can do more journaling as I think writing gives me a chance to reflect on the topic of disagreement and give me time to see and reflect the mistakes. If I later realise that I might be wrong, then I should take actions to change or let the person if I have the chance.
I think watching variety show and learn what mistake people did. And also reinforce my own world view. You see I sided with Xiao Sun right. End of the last espidoes, 老王end up being a very good friend with 小孙. You see, people with 主观意识 end up over time will have people like them too.
Oh my god. Was watching 我们恋爱吧 第五季Relationship S5】EP02上 | 天选单独约会！ and I found how irrigating I was before. It reminds me about when I was in my previous job, my arrogance and disrespectful to my co workers and bosses.
So the boy "Xiao Sun" went on a blind date and turn out that the girl he met was not the one that he like in the house. Therefore, being disappointed, he instantly gave the girl "王安琪“ a black face, furthermore he directly tell her that he don't mind that both of them just keep quiet for the whole ride. Indeed, from the train journey all the way till dinner, he just ignored her and tell her that he is just like this, if he needs to be comfortable, he needs to make other uncomfortable. During the whole trip, the girl handles him carefully and tactfully. Very high EQ.
Now that I see this kind of men, Xiao Sun a sigma male and probably an avoidance character. Although I can empathy with him and agree with him on all his point. In fact I am the kind of person that can made people really really uncomfortable. But when I see it from top down view, he can turn out to be childish and immuture.
做自己就会让别人不舒服，而让人家舒服就不能做自己
All the host are speaking ill of him. About him being very low EQ and not respectful to the date. I find it quite er xin too when watching on the show.
But I can feel him. I can understand him. He just simply don't care about how the viewer see his reaction. He doesn't care about the date, the crew, the host and even the audience. He is just thinking about what he wants in life. Okie. end up I still support him after ranting out his shortcoming.
I think you really don't have to care so much about how people look at you. Even people see you as low EQ, its just we have the choice to choose how we want. More time to know him, 王安琪 will know he is not directed at her. Just his character is like that.
Sometime I question if I really have EQ or not. I made many people uncomfortable at workplace before I just wanna persist on my own opinion. Can say that I am very self centred and don’t adhere to social fabric. No manners and being very respectful to people around me. Problem is I really don’t think I care a bit about the people I don’t care about. But I still like me as a person. I like having these boundaries and people can keep a distance with me. I don’t need people to agree or like me at all :)
Today I am testing to type on this new Bluetooth folding keyboard I brought online. This is the Targus bifold keyboard. I think I hate the way it is being split out into half. I don’t think I am going to be used to be typing on this. This one I get it for $30. I think I will just sell it away. I think its another waste money product liao.
Last week, I went to Taka to shop and eat. I saw the Japanese food and it makes me miss japan already. I decided not to eat at there cause the price is crazy at $20 on average. The reason why I went to Orchard is to repair my IPhone mini 13 camera. It does me to fix it at $255. Some other shop offers to repair at $125 but I am afraid they will not pair with my phone without the official apple camera module. Furthermore the waterproofing might get affected.
I also went to shoppe to buy epoxy glue to paint my basketball. After painting with epoxy, the ball don’t bounce correctly. Therefore the ball consider spolit, I will just leave it near the court so that in case I need it i have a spare.
Today I finally went down to Queensway to buy a new baskeball, initially thought to get the Molten 4500 which cost $68 which is made of composite leather. However, although the handling is good and all but playing this ball in outdoor will really reduce the life of the ball, therefore I get a premiere rubber ball. Cost me $32 which is the spalding street phantom, soft touch. It is expensive for a rubber ball already, I hope it will have a better playability compare to the cheap rubber ball I get from decathlon.
Unforuntely, my first play on this ball is that it is too bouncy and the bounce back from the rim might also hurt your finger. Maybe I have to break in a little bit before I can review again.
Today i want to throw back an incident that happens on 20 Oct 2023. Me and Jackie were planning to meet up for dinner at Chinatown Point. While we are waiting for red light to turn green at a junction, a men approached me with a piece of paper.
As a previous direct sales personal, I had the habit to take all marketing material so I will be informed about new products promotion. Sometime these products sort of inspire me for other business ventures. So I took over the paper and ask what product are you selling? He told me he is not selling anything and just mention that this is something good for you and he think that I should know about it.
After crossing the junction I briefly discussed with Jackie and tells her that this man is kinda funny whom pass me a notes with a youtube link and he is not selling anything. The next on my mind is that this piece of paper must be something of religion nature. Cause no one in the right mind will just pass on something on the street which isn’t a product or a religion pitch.
The men showing me the note in his hand
Time passed and I didn’t have the time to research on this topic, I only briefly know the video is talking about self healing. Recently I am decluttering my stuff and this photo came back to me so I decided to spend some time to note this down.
The video for the link is no longer working so I google her name and watch her first video on youtube regarding fungus. She warns about the danger of fungus inhabiting in your house, never to touch the fungus as it is air bound and able to be inhaled into your body. We should not use bleach but a better choice will be vinegar to clean of the mould in your house.
Although she is labelled as a dangerous non medical personal whom is known to use natural healing instead of chemo while treating cancer. She had mixed review and there are also large followers that supports her ideas. I am one of them. I don’t believe chemo is good for the body. I am an advocate for alternate medicine. The big pharma will make future medicine unaffordable. People will be drained off their life time saving when in old age and everything will be siphoned to the corporation.
Not to sound gloomy. So start taking care of our body and be healthy and not let sickness disturb our good life now :)
We were taught about the idea of heaven and hell when we were young. We have to be obedience and be a good person then we can go heaven otherwise we will go to hell. For half of my life I had fear death as an unknown. Unknowingly if I going to go heaven and hell when I die or “when will I die”.
After my half life, I started to think all these concept are just bullshit. To scare you and control you. I believe when you die, everything just ends. No heaven or hell. Which I think people are already passed is more blessed then people living alive now. Take for my mum, she passed so young I kinda think it is a blessing as she had been a very good person, kind and loving therefore she will enjoy herself by not suffering in this world anymore.
People saying, good people die young and all the villain always lives a long life. I believe people that is long life just because they are being punished in hell. 人间就是地狱.
There are so much suffering in this world. All the scammers to cheat your money, Big Med company to sell you expensive medical. Capitalism squeeze dry the pay for the new graduate. Big corporate (Grab and Amazon) control the livelihood of grab driver and small retail owners. People are just so selfish to stall all the wealth among themselves and let the people eat bread crumbs. I am also selfish so I don’t know what makes tomorrow a better place to be in?
My thoughts are very gloomy that even youtube ad starts to recommend me self help line. It is so funny. I think I am too free and I should start to do something to take my minds off all these thoughts.
But redirecting my thoughts doesn’t mean the problem will just disappear. I can just choose to work or get busy to engage in escapism. 李诞现在还会觉得人间值得吗？
Was riding on my father bike suddenly just let my brain wonders. Suddenly thought about life shouldn’t be about objective driven. Objective is just a man made concept that they install in your brain. A plant and animal doesn’t have objective that they needs to be accomplished. Only live each day with peace and eat if you have to. That’s all.
Something of completion will only be a beginning of something else to be achieved. Our human life is only between the pursuing and completion of something. Anyway the end goal of our life is death and no one wants to complete this mission anytime soon right?
When we talk about success, it is for external and for other people. If there are no one around there will be nothing of success to show people anyway. Therefore when we pursuit success we merely want some people validation from outside sources.
So while many time I do something it’s appears to people that I am not achieve something just like doing something for fun. People find it weird. I sometimes also not used to be doing something but not achieving anything in the process. But that’s is fine. I shouldn’t worry too much about it.
Life shouldn’t be always about goal setting and had to have achievement in the process. That’s too stress for me. Life is not about the 0 and 1. But it really about the happening between the 0 and 1.
This weekend I stayed at JB to get some stock up for my house. Love to go Malaysia rent a small house. That’s is small empty and always clean with little stuff :)
