On job 3rd day citi

3rd day into the job. Start getting the hang of it. My first day is damn scare and blur lo. Somemore i alone inside bishan ibc. Mo ine to guide me or give me ojt. Lucky the hard part of tapping customer is over. Just i need to be more confidence in the products knowledge and fluent in my presentation.

My stop rates are high but conversion rates still not there. I havent tried hard enough i think. I tend to get them go when upon they first rejection. I think i need to work harder on that.

Today at compass m1 rs i manage to close my first casa with hsiong wei and kind if make me more comfortable preaching to cust. I want to try loan the next available chance. Sher close almost 9 clear at cine. I will to catch up and hope i can able to draw the ipad as the winner.

Jon is on the killing spree. 10cm with 43cc in one day. He almost close all cust with 5 cards. Impressive. I had to work harder. But ethically i still not convinced to enforce cshield in cm leh. But they say if you wan money then you have to do the dirty way.

Should i follow them?

Hazy weather, psi worsen

I still felt like i am a people person. I enjoying hanging out with new friends and be able to bring joy and happiness to the group.

Xf had share her secret of making best friend with a girl, and thats to share a secret with the girl. You can be instantly become a bff if you have something holding on between you two.

Let me share my success with people and thats to be humble and able to laugh at yourself. Everyone know that i am a cheena and i english is very broken. But i do find some of my english really damn funny. Like i cant pronoun gourmet pleasure. I always pronoun "got meh, pressure". I am can tank really well with sarcasm. Like people kept saying my face tio lon by mrt, got a lots of oil that my skin resist to sunburn etc. but if that us want makes people happy about, why not. In a group there is bound to be someone being picked on. Instead of hurting another person, why not take it all in right.

Weather is damn hot, humid and hazy. Heard after psi 200 then dont have to go work. But once again, all these coming from Jonathan. U choose to believe?

Last outing with the sales dogs

porn star mandy working her Mojo

TGIF, men dress down, ladies hairs down. Working our Mojo after lesson with the "Sales Dogs". Can I say this is the best best outing thus far. How come we bond like super glue and we were indeed very close to each other like we had met before. Part of me want to pass out, part of me don't bare to do so. 

Prik thai look alike at Ocean

With Keith and Jon, we went to chill out on the Monday evening after work. It is really an odd day to hang out right. We head to somewhere to have a drink and then we walk blindly to park lane. Had 4 jar of beer at K2 and me and Jon got a happy ending that burnt us a big hole in our pocket. Something funny between me and Jonathan. Hee hee.

Citibank training

Well, I know it will be fun, but never thought it's going to be that fun. I don't want to end the class so soon, but life move on Gary. This 2 weeks are the most relaxing, fun and stressful period of my life. It's tedious the exam, the hours are long but the people with me made it worthwhile.

We tease about almost each other with each other. Like Handsome lee and Mandy Ng, Me and Sanita, Keith and Shermine. It just feels so right suaning each other. And Handsome lee nonsensical confident to lie. The backside crane, the finger lighter the man with 4 rabbits, Mo chen with the chen mo the gao yang. Keith with the authentic face but rotten soul. Mandy's pulling finger tricks. Me with the shouting at the 10th year senior trainer. Haha so funny.

And special thanks to trainer, Xiu Fen making the lesson so interesting and engrossing. She is very pretty and I keep suaning her age and looks like old only. But she is like Xiao S totally. Chio lah chio lah, I admit. 

I have a feeling. This is the job that I would enjoy, at least for this short period of time.

Citibank training with trainer Xiufen

getting free tailor made shirt and pant

I still remember throwing away my corporate wear, leather shoes etc and vowed that I will not step into the corporate world and climb the corporate ladder. When was that? Hmmm, roughly one year ago, that is what I thought. Now take a look at me, in the stupid corporate wear again.

Now I am going through training for direct sale in Citibank. Cause they paid handsomely with basic, incentives, allowance and commissions. I could not slag no more at home already. I need to join some job that is challenging, dynamic and highly motivated. What else other than direct sale. I kinda direct right.

Soon I will be super no life as the job requires long and tiring working hours. But that will be my stepping stone to bridge over to property. Meanwhile learn a little about credit cards, loan and saving plan for my financial part then when I save enough, I shall switch back to property. Anyway, I will be still waiting for my RES exam result and application for the license. That will take a few months.

I am happy loh. My new year resolution for this year had one less item as I will be striking off one of them when I pass my RES.

Love, responsible please come come, I need you.

Is love really pure?

"Michelle E
Loving someone isit all about how ur love will be reciprocated? So if u can't feel the other party loving u as much as u do, u back away and love lesser until the party learns to love u as much as u do. Is love like this?"

Quoting one of my friend who post this comment on her facebook, at first I thought it is so true, A lot of people out there is weighting love in exchanging for something in return.


But after a while I thought, actually why are we able to make friend so easily but it so difficult to find love relationship? Both of them is a kind of love, one friendship verse the other love relationship. Both of them is based on trust, the more you trust the other party, the closer you get. I ask myself why love is much a complicated stuff, unlike friendship, where you happen to just meet and just click. That's that, simple and you got yourself the next BFF.

You treasure the time spent together, you do not care how long it last. It could last you a life time or the friendship may fade with time. But end of the day, you are just fine, well you may be sad initially but life still move on and you are not breaking any sweat. You are alright without this friend to begin with.

The only different is that for love, you had an additional element call attraction. Remember how badly you want something like the toy you never had when you are young. You want it so badly you cry and whine. You crave for the possession for something that you are attracted to. You want to spent lots of time with it. You do not want to share your attraction with other. 

If love is what it is, then I shall say that love isn't pure. It is lust, the desire to possess something to yourself and it is one of the 7 deadly sins as described in the bible. Pure love is unconditionally accepting the person inside out, right here right now. It is not made but growth. True love cannot be forced. 

After you overcome the initial stage of sexual attraction and the honeymoon period over, you met with dispute and dismay, that is where true love kicks in. Do you love the worst of him/her. Hence, love is not within a heartbeat and never on first sight.

朱梓骁模仿刘德华"归宿“

If you haven watch 百变大咖秀。Should go watch, its like damn funny. The show is all about imitating celebrities star in funny ways. However recently I saw one episode where I am quite touch. Share with you all.



The original play is by Andy lau in his concerts. I of course still prefers Andy Lau version.



Lastly, let you see the cantonese version in Shanghai

Stop being a potatoe

I should really just concentrate that this blog shall not be commercialized. The greed had detour my style of writing on the blog. This shall be a personal blog. That's that. I will be lame with my very day routine and boring dinner photos.

I really need discipline and commitment. Like commitment to exercising, reading, socializing and public speaking. How can I stay focus and contemporary with life? I really need to get out of my crouch do something.

Watched Hello Stranger again. Still manage and entice me like first time. Really romantic Thai Movie. You should watch it.

Superheroes girlfriend ranking prettiest from films

Just finish watching Iron Man 3 and then I thought that Iron man's and Spiderman's girlfriend is the same person. They do look alike right? They always said that there is a selfless woman behind every successful man. And I guess all the super hero's girlfriend did not have the attention that they deserve. Super heroes do save the world with super power but they will be empty with their partner's companionship. Hence I like to go through all Super heroes girlfriend and give a rating from the prettiest to the ugliest.

Batman do not have a steady girlfriend and he is being written a millionaire playboy. Hence explain why Batman is sick and mental. He is dark. I bring in Selina Kyle (Catwoman) because she is in my opinion one of the prettiest lady from all batman series.

Res exam paper 2

Yesterday night burnt midnight to study from res exam. And like what i always do, watch a full movie before going for exam. Its really a nice idea to free myself from stress and make good for more mugging of books and terminology.

Yesterday watched "the machinist" by Christian Bale, and i am impress that he can slim down from 90lbs to 50lbs. Almost lost half of his body. He is famously known for able to manipulate his body with ease. I am impressed by his regime and determination.

Went in for the paper 2 today and felt the paper is not what i have practised for the sample sort of differently structured and asked. A lot of common sense answer but works against me because I had been training for the sample paper's format and so I cant apply common during the exam. I do have confident to pass with single sitting. I am pretty sure that t is almost unfair to fail me for my effort in my study.

Realtor, I almost going to be.

101次求婚-同名主题曲《Say Yes》

101次求婚-同名主题曲《Say Yes》--李代沫

I hate this gay. His voice only so so, but he sang one of my favourite song I listen when I was younger. As I listen a couple more time, the song kinda grew on me. 

I now getting so Cheena. Type SMS and blog in chinese, love China culture and watch channel from China. Live streaming. Even watch 春晚 live over the air at some China website. Watch China drama, china variety and go China 吊花场。Crazy right.

I believe a lot of people discriminate China people. Including foreigner talent and blah blah. But have you realise your ethnic is Chinese and we originated from China. If you reject China native then I guess you are fundamentally reject who you are actually. Being born and raise in Singapore doesn't make you more Chinese than you already are. Anyway, China is an economic force not to be reckon with. Beside Singaporean isn't gracious at all.

Compare Singapore traffic and Euro's traffic and driver ethnic. Ugly Singaporean. Including myself. I agree. At least I own up to it. 

Haiz. Up the lorry lah. The RES exam is really putting me under bending moment stress test -_-" 

粉红佳人 the who told me the sad sad news. Put me to the stress test again. I felt I don't really adapt well to social and mental stress. I realise I am just so weak as a person. 

Why the "A" student work for "C" student

Hey, today's Mother's day and I went to TB Popular and came across a rather interesting book that caught by sight. Good attention getting, gotten give it to the author which is none other than Robert T. Kiyosaki.

The book by the title : Why "A" Students Work for "C" Students and "B" Students Work for the Government.

Come on, tell me how you are not going to pick up and flip through it. Like seriously. Without second thoughts I pick up the book and snap shot and rush home to search google for a free copy. Bing bing

Hope you like it. I will not share you the link :p Please support the author and get a copy at your nearest bookstore.

据说这是一堂价值300万元的课

第一课

一个男人在他妻子洗完澡后准备进浴室洗澡。这时，门铃响了。妻子迅速用浴巾裹住自己冲到门口。当她打开门时，邻居鲍勃站在那儿。在她开口前，鲍勃说，“你如果把浴巾拿掉，我给你800美元。”想了一会儿，这个女人拿掉浴巾赤裸地站在鲍勃面前。
几秒钟后，鲍勃递给她800美元然后离开了。女人重新裹好浴巾回到屋里。当她踏进浴室时，丈夫问她，“是谁呀？”
“是邻居鲍勃。”她回答。
“哦，”丈夫说，“他有没有提到还欠我800美元？”

故事寓意：及时与同舟共济的股东分享重要信息，将会避免不必要a的曝光。

第二课

一个销售员、一个办事员和他们的经理步行去午餐时发现了一盏古代油灯。他们摩擦油灯，一个精灵跳了出来。精灵说：“我能满足你们每人一个愿望。”“我先！我先！”办事员说，“我想去巴哈马群岛，开着快艇，与世隔绝。”倏！她飞走了。“该我了！该我了！”销售员说，“我想去夏威夷，躺在沙滩上，有私人女按摩师，免费续杯的冰镇果汁朗姆酒，还有一生中的最爱。”倏！他飞走了。“OK, 该你了。”精灵对经理说。经理回答：“我要那两个蠢货午饭后马上回来工作！”

故事寓意：永远让你的老板开口先。

第三课

Vegetarian is killing animals more often then you think

My last article is on the common discrimination from domestic pet owner that eating exotic food is cruelty. I left off at why being a vegetarian will not solve animal cruelty. This is my reason.

A lot of vegetarian is vowing to reduce animal suffering from human harvesting them for food. Eating vegetarian which do not have nerves so theoretically  they are free from suffering. But I believe there is collateral effect for vegetarian.

First, fuck those vegetarian who visionary is to against animal suffering but still taking dairy products, eggs and cheese. This by product from animal cause animal suffering (as accused) as well. Those that follow strict vegetarian diet that avoid all animal by product is causing animal suffering indirectly and they are as sinful as meat eater in my opinion.

Domestic pet abuse VS Human food manslaughter

Sometime I feel very ironic for people's reaction to the food I eat. Do not call me sick but I have to confess that I had a "thing" for eating exotic food like, dog meat, turtle soup, kangaroo. People give me the "look" like I am the most sinful person with no compassion for animal. Yup. recently I went to China for my first time in my life to try out dog meat.

Dog meat soup only cost $3 SGD 

And well if you are wondering how dog meat is prepared, do not wonder away. I searched for the most disgusting video available after the break. Please to warned about the graphical. Animal lover please do not view it.

Back to revising book

Completed my RES course and booked for the exam. Let's not be negative and say that I like changing job. I think I really had problem on your attention span. My passion last faster than goldfish memory -_-

Why realtor? I think because it works somehow like selling stuff on Ebay. Heez... And I like property as much as I like civil. Sort of related right? And I know its tough and with the bad timing of all the cooling measures made it even tougher now to get into this industries. But hey, I got to do what I like to do and I have the energy and time to do it :)

And passing RES is my 2012 / 13 resolution! At least I am still working on my checklist can. Excited to where it is heading to. Instead of studying for exam, I choose to spend my time watching survivor. On going is season 26, while waiting for refreshing of new episode, I back dated and watch season 9 concurrently. Can't get ozzy out of my mind cause he is damn charming and athletic. Legendary immunity challenger. Too bad he didn't manage to win once in this 3 appearance as he is not a very strategic person. Your body is willing so make sure your brain do not fall behind as well.

Not be negative

I believe anyone that tries to leaves you has their reason. Do not hate them cause I will be asking myself if I am worth being after for. So instead of hating people and blame them for whatever reason, be forgiving and upgrade yourself. The only way for them to come back to you is to improve yourself and make yourself worthy again. Or make them regrets, anyway you win.

So right now, I really has to not focus on the negativity and start doing something to bring myself up again. People love you when you learn to love yourself. If i were like my past self, I might be doing stupid things like ruining my life and be wasted. But now I learnt to let go.

You can do it, gary. Jiayou

Looking forward to global freedom

Ah. Blog is crying for my attention. It needs an update.

Res exam is getting tougher and i guess it really had over estimated myself. With the cooling measures kicking into place, is it a bad timing for my to enter this market?

Recently, i am having thoughts on relocating to oversea and lead my mobile lifestyle, really caught between my career advancement directions. How should i self substantiate myself globally. Seeking solution.

Mother succeed in filing divorce after so many months of torment and cost because my father just refuse to sign the paper. Interim decision had been passed with another 3 months of lead time for my father to prove otherwise.

Mother got into trouble with louis vuitton for selling replica in her shop and had been settling out of court for 3k damages.

Shenyang Day 7

16th march 2013


After yesterday night hip-ups. We still meeting for breakfast at lao ya fen si. Then we went to supermarket to stock up water, food and chocolate as we are heading for long journey to guai po.

Took the long and squeeze bus that took us almost 2 hour and we reach guai po. Entry is 80rmb including entry to tiger park as well. Walk hand in hand to the top of the hill and we reaches guai po. The strange slope that water flow uphill. Took some video as prove.

Shenyang Day 6

15th march 2013

We meet up and plan for 大帅俯行程. Both of us were stressed over yesterday dinner with her sister. Along the way we stop over to see some people flying kites. We stood there watching and she just came to tears. Very unhappy initially.

Shenyang Day 5

14th march 2013

 We planned to meet 2 hour earlier at 8am end up i was late for an hour. Opps. We proceed to have breakfast at 老鸭粉丝 then i head to 五爱批发市场. We roam around aimlessly and ran across a shop that distribute very cute and cartoony accessories shop. I brought a lot as i think they sell well in singapore. I do not have cash so ting pay for it without second thoughts. Very good right? 

Shenyang Day 4

13th march 2013

 As usual pick her up at 10am, our first checklist is to eat 虾爬子. So we went to the local wet market just opposite our place for that. They do sell exotic live seafood like sea turtle, mini frog, worms and all sort of shell products. We end up buying 虾爬子和大闸蟹. We went up to her apartment to cook them. I complete my second checklist to eat 虾爬子. Yeah, but not really that fantasy after all. But i also get to try 大闸蟹 for the first time which is something i had never try before. Surprisingly, they were very nice with egg york full. Really creamy and rich.

Shenyang Day 3

12th march 2013

Suppose to travel together to beijing but to be cancelled as her sister disapprove us travelling. Sad. This morning finally there is snow, all that i ever wished came true. The snow came drizzling down. I got a encounter my first snow experience.

Shenyang Day 2

11th march 2013

Day 2 morning we suppose to meet up at 10am. As i do not have roaming or data plan we basically are un-contactable with each other so i went down to wait for her at the lobby but we bump into each other at the lift. 有默契.

Shenyang Day 1

10th march 2013

Waiting impatiently over at beijing pudong airport. Not much to do over my 4 hour stopover except to go eat breakfast. Its 630am in the morning. And the food is crazily expensive. A chinese tea and wantan noodle cost me 158rmb meaning it over $30 sgd. 5 more hour before i see ting. Will this trip trip turns out enjoyable. Shall wait and see.

Liaoning, shenyang meeting up ting

Impulse to go oversea. As quickly as my thought hits me, i booked an air ticket to shenyang 2 days later. Not giving myself too much to wonder around. 2 days enough.

I learnt today that some budget traveller actually purposely book flights with stop over so that they can get the best out of the trip by visit another state or country. So i opt for the singapore to shenyang with a 4 hour stop over at beijing. Nice! Can choose the 12 hour stop over but i reckon that we need to completely check out luggage to exit the airport. Lazy to do that.

10 days at shenyang i plan on staying 3 days there and book a train to either tianjing, dalian or harbin. This time i purposely not book hotel and plan itinerary cause i just like to live in the moment without having too much pressure. Remember the article that i wrote on life is all about the journey and not the destination?

So many to do list to accomplish, eating 虾蛄，天津狗不理包子，馄饨 to name the least. And this is the first time I going over at winter season. Sub zero degree and possibly snowing. But already passed snowing period. Now is only cold winter, still pray that it will snow nonetheless.

Coming back i need to catch up on a couple of my new years resolution. Taking and passing IPT and complete RES course in the shortest time possible.

Side note, i am a doer when i want to do. I say to host my changba fanatic and there there. I became the 玄籁家族的群主。

I am so clever to come up with the name and have all the fans to agree upon diplomatically. Define and reason why the name

玄籁家族的由来：
玄籁这个名字是独一无二的。唱吧里不会有撞名，是标志性象征。

玄：天,天空〖sky〗
籁：古代的一种乐器，声音

玄籁🔄天籁
天籁：天籁是音乐的最高境界，天籁就是天上传来的声音，此曲只应天上有人间难得几回闻。

Sharing Changba on Facebook

Today, I just realise that Chang Ba can be shared to listen on computer and meaning that I can also share it on Facebook! Interesting. Hence, below is some of my very best collections. Only can found and compiled at the CD shop -_-

p/s: Put on the earpiece for better effect, if not the echo is quite heavy.

1）浪子心声
2）伤痕
3）北京北京
4）掌声响起
5）大话西游 Only You

Thanks for supporting only the best music.

这女生和我唱好心分手的叫北昔，在唱吧里和我是师徒关系。最后因为和我内人有口角磨察被我给拉黑了。

唱吧！手机ktv 攻略刷榜

1。不要用真人头像除非你是高富帅或白富美

2。互粉，多听人的歌，多留言，建立良好关系。记得粉丝团在于＂精＂不在于＂量＂

3。唱时一定要用耳机。可用带mic的也可以用没mic的耳机。本人喜欢不带mic的耳机对着手机唱。喷mic会少些echo也会多些。

4。如果带mic的耳机唱时喷mic严重，请把mic向外，唱时朝mic的45度唱。别对准mic吼。

5。刷榜多开几个小号，几架手机同时刷试听，25秒后关歌在开算一次。留言越多越好别留多过10个在同一个人，不然会被言禁。再来就是花花。每个小号3朵花。
（如果想刷榜可加我angel_garynbc)

Recently into this china app called 唱吧！手机ktv. Can only install through china region hence there are very little singapore playing this app. A lot of chio bu but most of them are not using their own picture of course. And the system kind of very funny, you get into the 龙谷榜 not because you have the killer voice but because you have a lot of supporter. Most of the number one inside sucks.

Btw if you happen to have 唱吧。我的id是angel_garynbc. Angel 马甲是我qq群里的家族。在qq里混的这些日子让我交到好多知心好友，也让我打华语字越来越快了。哈哈。中国朋友也越来越多！