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Is love really pure?

"Michelle E
Loving someone isit all about how ur love will be reciprocated? So if u can't feel the other party loving u as much as u do, u back away and love lesser until the party learns to love u as much as u do. Is love like this?"


Quoting one of my friend who post this comment on her facebook, at first I thought it is so true, A lot of people out there is weighting love in exchanging for something in return.


But after a while I thought, actually why are we able to make friend so easily but it so difficult to find love relationship? Both of them is a kind of love, one friendship verse the other love relationship. Both of them is based on trust, the more you trust the other party, the closer you get. I ask myself why love is much a complicated stuff, unlike friendship, where you happen to just meet and just click. That's that, simple and you got yourself the next BFF.

You treasure the time spent together, you do not care how long it last. It could last you a life time or the friendship may fade with time. But end of the day, you are just fine, well you may be sad initially but life still move on and you are not breaking any sweat. You are alright without this friend to begin with.

The only different is that for love, you had an additional element call attraction. Remember how badly you want something like the toy you never had when you are young. You want it so badly you cry and whine. You crave for the possession for something that you are attracted to. You want to spent lots of time with it. You do not want to share your attraction with other. 

If love is what it is, then I shall say that love isn't pure. It is lust, the desire to possess something to yourself and it is one of the 7 deadly sins as described in the bible. Pure love is unconditionally accepting the person inside out, right here right now. It is not made but growth. True love cannot be forced. 

After you overcome the initial stage of sexual attraction and the honeymoon period over, you met with dispute and dismay, that is where true love kicks in. Do you love the worst of him/her. Hence, love is not within a heartbeat and never on first sight.

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