据说这是一堂价值300万元的课

第一课

一个男人在他妻子洗完澡后准备进浴室洗澡。这时，门铃响了。妻子迅速用浴巾裹住自己冲到门口。当她打开门时，邻居鲍勃站在那儿。在她开口前，鲍勃说，“你如果把浴巾拿掉，我给你800美元。”想了一会儿，这个女人拿掉浴巾赤裸地站在鲍勃面前。
几秒钟后，鲍勃递给她800美元然后离开了。女人重新裹好浴巾回到屋里。当她踏进浴室时，丈夫问她，“是谁呀？”
“是邻居鲍勃。”她回答。
“哦，”丈夫说，“他有没有提到还欠我800美元？”

故事寓意：及时与同舟共济的股东分享重要信息，将会避免不必要a的曝光。

第二课

一个销售员、一个办事员和他们的经理步行去午餐时发现了一盏古代油灯。他们摩擦油灯，一个精灵跳了出来。精灵说：“我能满足你们每人一个愿望。”“我先！我先！”办事员说，“我想去巴哈马群岛，开着快艇，与世隔绝。”倏！她飞走了。“该我了！该我了！”销售员说，“我想去夏威夷，躺在沙滩上，有私人女按摩师，免费续杯的冰镇果汁朗姆酒，还有一生中的最爱。”倏！他飞走了。“OK, 该你了。”精灵对经理说。经理回答：“我要那两个蠢货午饭后马上回来工作！”

故事寓意：永远让你的老板开口先。

第三课

Vegetarian is killing animals more often then you think

My last article is on the common discrimination from domestic pet owner that eating exotic food is cruelty. I left off at why being a vegetarian will not solve animal cruelty. This is my reason.

A lot of vegetarian is vowing to reduce animal suffering from human harvesting them for food. Eating vegetarian which do not have nerves so theoretically  they are free from suffering. But I believe there is collateral effect for vegetarian.

First, fuck those vegetarian who visionary is to against animal suffering but still taking dairy products, eggs and cheese. This by product from animal cause animal suffering (as accused) as well. Those that follow strict vegetarian diet that avoid all animal by product is causing animal suffering indirectly and they are as sinful as meat eater in my opinion.

Domestic pet abuse VS Human food manslaughter

Sometime I feel very ironic for people's reaction to the food I eat. Do not call me sick but I have to confess that I had a "thing" for eating exotic food like, dog meat, turtle soup, kangaroo. People give me the "look" like I am the most sinful person with no compassion for animal. Yup. recently I went to China for my first time in my life to try out dog meat.

Dog meat soup only cost $3 SGD 

And well if you are wondering how dog meat is prepared, do not wonder away. I searched for the most disgusting video available after the break. Please to warned about the graphical. Animal lover please do not view it.

Back to revising book

Completed my RES course and booked for the exam. Let's not be negative and say that I like changing job. I think I really had problem on your attention span. My passion last faster than goldfish memory -_-

Why realtor? I think because it works somehow like selling stuff on Ebay. Heez... And I like property as much as I like civil. Sort of related right? And I know its tough and with the bad timing of all the cooling measures made it even tougher now to get into this industries. But hey, I got to do what I like to do and I have the energy and time to do it :)

And passing RES is my 2012 / 13 resolution! At least I am still working on my checklist can. Excited to where it is heading to. Instead of studying for exam, I choose to spend my time watching survivor. On going is season 26, while waiting for refreshing of new episode, I back dated and watch season 9 concurrently. Can't get ozzy out of my mind cause he is damn charming and athletic. Legendary immunity challenger. Too bad he didn't manage to win once in this 3 appearance as he is not a very strategic person. Your body is willing so make sure your brain do not fall behind as well.

Not be negative

I believe anyone that tries to leaves you has their reason. Do not hate them cause I will be asking myself if I am worth being after for. So instead of hating people and blame them for whatever reason, be forgiving and upgrade yourself. The only way for them to come back to you is to improve yourself and make yourself worthy again. Or make them regrets, anyway you win.

So right now, I really has to not focus on the negativity and start doing something to bring myself up again. People love you when you learn to love yourself. If i were like my past self, I might be doing stupid things like ruining my life and be wasted. But now I learnt to let go.

You can do it, gary. Jiayou

Looking forward to global freedom

Ah. Blog is crying for my attention. It needs an update.

Res exam is getting tougher and i guess it really had over estimated myself. With the cooling measures kicking into place, is it a bad timing for my to enter this market?

Recently, i am having thoughts on relocating to oversea and lead my mobile lifestyle, really caught between my career advancement directions. How should i self substantiate myself globally. Seeking solution.

Mother succeed in filing divorce after so many months of torment and cost because my father just refuse to sign the paper. Interim decision had been passed with another 3 months of lead time for my father to prove otherwise.

Mother got into trouble with louis vuitton for selling replica in her shop and had been settling out of court for 3k damages.

Shenyang Day 7

16th march 2013


After yesterday night hip-ups. We still meeting for breakfast at lao ya fen si. Then we went to supermarket to stock up water, food and chocolate as we are heading for long journey to guai po.

Took the long and squeeze bus that took us almost 2 hour and we reach guai po. Entry is 80rmb including entry to tiger park as well. Walk hand in hand to the top of the hill and we reaches guai po. The strange slope that water flow uphill. Took some video as prove.

Shenyang Day 6

15th march 2013

We meet up and plan for 大帅俯行程. Both of us were stressed over yesterday dinner with her sister. Along the way we stop over to see some people flying kites. We stood there watching and she just came to tears. Very unhappy initially.

Shenyang Day 5

14th march 2013

 We planned to meet 2 hour earlier at 8am end up i was late for an hour. Opps. We proceed to have breakfast at 老鸭粉丝 then i head to 五爱批发市场. We roam around aimlessly and ran across a shop that distribute very cute and cartoony accessories shop. I brought a lot as i think they sell well in singapore. I do not have cash so ting pay for it without second thoughts. Very good right? 

Shenyang Day 4

13th march 2013

 As usual pick her up at 10am, our first checklist is to eat 虾爬子. So we went to the local wet market just opposite our place for that. They do sell exotic live seafood like sea turtle, mini frog, worms and all sort of shell products. We end up buying 虾爬子和大闸蟹. We went up to her apartment to cook them. I complete my second checklist to eat 虾爬子. Yeah, but not really that fantasy after all. But i also get to try 大闸蟹 for the first time which is something i had never try before. Surprisingly, they were very nice with egg york full. Really creamy and rich.

Shenyang Day 3

12th march 2013

Suppose to travel together to beijing but to be cancelled as her sister disapprove us travelling. Sad. This morning finally there is snow, all that i ever wished came true. The snow came drizzling down. I got a encounter my first snow experience.

Shenyang Day 2

11th march 2013

Day 2 morning we suppose to meet up at 10am. As i do not have roaming or data plan we basically are un-contactable with each other so i went down to wait for her at the lobby but we bump into each other at the lift. 有默契.

Shenyang Day 1

10th march 2013

Waiting impatiently over at beijing pudong airport. Not much to do over my 4 hour stopover except to go eat breakfast. Its 630am in the morning. And the food is crazily expensive. A chinese tea and wantan noodle cost me 158rmb meaning it over $30 sgd. 5 more hour before i see ting. Will this trip trip turns out enjoyable. Shall wait and see.

Liaoning, shenyang meeting up ting

Impulse to go oversea. As quickly as my thought hits me, i booked an air ticket to shenyang 2 days later. Not giving myself too much to wonder around. 2 days enough.

I learnt today that some budget traveller actually purposely book flights with stop over so that they can get the best out of the trip by visit another state or country. So i opt for the singapore to shenyang with a 4 hour stop over at beijing. Nice! Can choose the 12 hour stop over but i reckon that we need to completely check out luggage to exit the airport. Lazy to do that.

10 days at shenyang i plan on staying 3 days there and book a train to either tianjing, dalian or harbin. This time i purposely not book hotel and plan itinerary cause i just like to live in the moment without having too much pressure. Remember the article that i wrote on life is all about the journey and not the destination?

So many to do list to accomplish, eating 虾蛄，天津狗不理包子，馄饨 to name the least. And this is the first time I going over at winter season. Sub zero degree and possibly snowing. But already passed snowing period. Now is only cold winter, still pray that it will snow nonetheless.

Coming back i need to catch up on a couple of my new years resolution. Taking and passing IPT and complete RES course in the shortest time possible.

Side note, i am a doer when i want to do. I say to host my changba fanatic and there there. I became the 玄籁家族的群主。

I am so clever to come up with the name and have all the fans to agree upon diplomatically. Define and reason why the name

玄籁家族的由来：
玄籁这个名字是独一无二的。唱吧里不会有撞名，是标志性象征。

玄：天,天空〖sky〗
籁：古代的一种乐器，声音

玄籁🔄天籁
天籁：天籁是音乐的最高境界，天籁就是天上传来的声音，此曲只应天上有人间难得几回闻。

Sharing Changba on Facebook

Today, I just realise that Chang Ba can be shared to listen on computer and meaning that I can also share it on Facebook! Interesting. Hence, below is some of my very best collections. Only can found and compiled at the CD shop -_-

p/s: Put on the earpiece for better effect, if not the echo is quite heavy.

1）浪子心声
2）伤痕
3）北京北京
4）掌声响起
5）大话西游 Only You

Thanks for supporting only the best music.

这女生和我唱好心分手的叫北昔，在唱吧里和我是师徒关系。最后因为和我内人有口角磨察被我给拉黑了。

唱吧！手机ktv 攻略刷榜

1。不要用真人头像除非你是高富帅或白富美

2。互粉，多听人的歌，多留言，建立良好关系。记得粉丝团在于＂精＂不在于＂量＂

3。唱时一定要用耳机。可用带mic的也可以用没mic的耳机。本人喜欢不带mic的耳机对着手机唱。喷mic会少些echo也会多些。

4。如果带mic的耳机唱时喷mic严重，请把mic向外，唱时朝mic的45度唱。别对准mic吼。

5。刷榜多开几个小号，几架手机同时刷试听，25秒后关歌在开算一次。留言越多越好别留多过10个在同一个人，不然会被言禁。再来就是花花。每个小号3朵花。
（如果想刷榜可加我angel_garynbc)

Recently into this china app called 唱吧！手机ktv. Can only install through china region hence there are very little singapore playing this app. A lot of chio bu but most of them are not using their own picture of course. And the system kind of very funny, you get into the 龙谷榜 not because you have the killer voice but because you have a lot of supporter. Most of the number one inside sucks.

Btw if you happen to have 唱吧。我的id是angel_garynbc. Angel 马甲是我qq群里的家族。在qq里混的这些日子让我交到好多知心好友，也让我打华语字越来越快了。哈哈。中国朋友也越来越多！

2013 resolution & wishlist

Its the time of the year for my own personal appraisal. Time to set new resolution and review on my old resolution for last year. I had highlighted at the bottom with green that all the item that I had achieved.

For year 2013

Achieve 3k/month profit for buyincase shop

Lose 8kg body weight to 72kg

Get a property agent license
Get to 3 different country this year




2009
comestically make over : Attempted in poly time, now revert back to old self
get grades enough for me to enter uni: Achieved the grade, (very good job)
quit smoking: Attempt a few time, quitted twice, once with Liwen and the other time in Bendigo
treasure the most important person in my live: Still didn't change much
socially more confidence and out going: Bad to worst
overcome stage fright: Joined Toastmaster and host Lilian's wedding dinner :)

2010 wishlist
Renovate my room: Not done
Buy a good bed frame and matress: Achieved
Second hand espresso machine: Achieved
Ceiling fan in room: Not done
Optional game console: Achieved
Nexus one mobile phone: No comment cause its optional

2011 no resolution

I reckon that I didn't follow much to my new year resolution but did manage to obtain quite a number on my wishlist. In my poly time, i was quite productive and achiever. After i start working, things completely changed. I felt I lost all my mojo, live is such boring and mundane. Nevertheless, setting resolution had became a routine so here it goes.

2012 resolution
Manage the admin renovation completely:
Joint venture into handphone counter before July:
Buyincase.com achieve 5k profit this year
Ebay shop need to set up properly:
Go dinner with colleague more often:
Treasure the most important person in my life and be more patience
Complete competent communicator project 10

New year celebration

Woa. This year 2013 could one of the best celebration for so long. Pass couple of years is simply dreaded through. This year i chiong so many places in one night. My youth is coming back.

Lets break down. Meet xingyu to bishan haibin go prawning and spend the magical 12 oclock there. Everyone is rowdy and shouting when it almost 12midnight. Caught a few little big prawn but the caught that night is not ideal. We had satay, mee boon, chicken wings during the long 3 hours for waiting.

After prawning we drove to golden mile and went that disco to have jug of ice cold beer, it is crowded and dirty that night. After beer we went down to have some nice thai food. Best.

Since i drank beer, i cannot drive so we took a long walk from golden mile to nugis miiddle road. 1/2 hours we had a good heart to heart talk. Seem like she had a lot of similarity with me and also able to read me better than others. She knows what i want, what i really is and mu point of view.

Soon we reach pool funshion and we had a few rounds of pool and then decide to go ktv to sing till morning. So long never chiong through the nught liao.

End up we slowing scroll back to golden mile to pock up my car, its already early in the morning. But there is still a lot of people standing around waiting for cab. We continue to have fun and chatted whole heartedly along the way.

剽悍的人生，不需要解释

蔡旸，我爱死你了。尤其你那天津话讲的是搞笑，搞笑滴。太猥琐，太王道了。记得你那一句：＂剽悍的人生，不需要解释。我挺你。＂好深刻。简直是让我羡慕嫉妒恨那男嘉宾。

伦家心目中滴完美情人就是象你这样滴复刻版。可爱又搞笑。来吧，我们约会吧！想象我带着足球跑到那里让您给我留灯，向你表白，两伦手牵手滴搭飞机到天津去。

我还是去做我的梦去吧。除了在银幕上和你四目相对，我和你是粘不到边度啦。世间上最远滴距离莫过与我有你微博帐号，可是却加不上你QQ。

Acid bar

Blogger on iphone is so buggy. Photos can only be inserted into at the end of the post. Beside i dont know why the photo uploaded can only be loaded on iphone browser an not on laptop browser like firefox and chrome. Hai~

I didnt celebrate christmas eve this year. Sad. But manage to meet up old colleague at acid bar on the christmas night itself. Yiwei crazy to crash on one of them. Really crazy.

Almost ready to set and review my last year resolution already. Feel lousy.

Top one with Ying

I am waiting for my 水煮鱼 alone at lao sishuan. Cannot get enough for it. 2 days ago, my shop electric got cut by pub stuff as my landlord didnt pay for the bill. All went hiding in china and many quitted the company. They went into law suit with one of the furniture guy. And now the temple guy rented the whole shop and of course it illegal to sublet the whole shop out. Again the temple guy gonna bring this matters to court. My landlord must be getting into a lot of troubles now. Unentically behaviour.

Life after working hours are again amazing. Pubbing cludding and all, life is good being single again. And i believe that as a man at my age, my value just slowly appreciated. Men just will grow more and more handsome against age. How good being a man. Haha.

Christmas coming and i will be taking leave again in christmas day. Yeah.

Tonight gonna listen to 中国好声音。：）
oh i got a new target liao. New girl working in air port one. Going to study business management. Hope can tio her. Dont want also to tio so fast because later take things for granted. I like the feeling of keep getting rejected. Feel fun. So i jio her to eat chuan cai la. sing ktv lah.

Htc one x+ sucks ball

Aiya. I dont feel good about my impulse purchase. I receive starhub $100 voucher so decide to go walk around bukit batok to look see new phone. Once i see liao, you know lah, cannot dont buy liao. So i was so torn between s3, htc one x+ and other window phones. I still love my old 4S. Altought iphone 5 is also mot bas, less because it cant be jailbroken now hence i really want something that can take good images.

Lastly, i still decided on htc one x+. Quad core 1.7ghz. F2.0 8 mp camera with 64gb built in memory. I thought it is a good deal. But once i use it, i almost can feel it is sluggish and laggy. Iphone 4S is more fluent and so many app. Now i like to play with snapguide. Now still at its charging cycle.

Recently my bloaster torn so i have to go replace it. Brought a bloaster as well.

7 sins and success / happiness

Happiness in my definition is the ability to do what you wish to do. And the ability to NOT do what you don't desire doing.

Success in my definition is the ability to provide happiness for others.

If you give a thought on the 2 points, they are fundamentally true and simple.

Happiness are quite easily achieved because to achieve happiness it all lies in the state of your own mind. What is the hardest to control is your envy for desire of others. Our society is constantly being moulded in the world of sin. The greatest 7 sin in the world intercepted by christian. I wrote in my own words are : anger, greed, laziness, pride, lust, envy and extravagance. Our needs are very little but if you think hard, most of them are free. Water, air, sunlight and love. Most of them are pure except love. Love had been contaminated with impurities. Love in our generation are materialised due to the great 7 sin.

Speaking of my success is to bring happiness to others. It is simple yet difficult. Solve a problem, help a friend, return to our community. Seem not too hard to achieve either. But why do we feel so hard to be successful? Again, the world's definition for happiness had evolved. People are getting harder and harder to be happy. Again due to the 7 sin.

Sad to say. I am contaminated by the infamous 7 sins thats why i am constantly not being happy and felt like a loser. Is money ending up all that important for being successful? In the world every start of something is the ending of another. Like people used to say, when you start to born, you begins to die. As your wealth builds, what will you compromise?

Think thought how to bring happiness to the people. Wether they love or hate you and then rethink about what is the real success that you are working towards.

只有爱你的人会被你伤着

太阳不会因为你的失意，明天不再升起，月亮不会因为你的抱怨，今晚不再降降临；蒙住自己的眼睛，不等于世界就漆黑一团，蒙住别人的眼睛，不等于光明就属于自己。

青春就是用来追忆的，当你怀揣着它时，它一文不值，只有将它耗尽后，再回过头看，一切才有了意义--爱过我们的人和伤害过我们的人，都是我们存在的意义。

女人如花，花似梦

我有花一朵长在我心中，真情真爱无人懂遍地的野草已占满了山坡，孤芳自赏最心痛。

爱过知情重，醉过知酒浓，花开花谢终是空。缘份不停留，像春风来又走，女人如花花似梦。

Bishan pawning with xiao yue

月嫂即将离我们远去。心里总觉得百般焦炉，万分不舍。但天下无不散之筵席嘛。

So we met up with uncle ah zai, yue and zhen this evening at bishan park pawning and spend a good 3 hours together. I got a catching spee early into the game. The catch is almost when i drop the bait, the pawn will take it. So fast that i couldnt even sit my chair siol siol. By the time i caught my 4th, uncle then caught his number one.

The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog

Do you know why the quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog? It is because you want to check the keyboard.

This is a very interesting phrase indeed. And its commonly used around by user who wish to test the responsiveness of your keyboard. The phrase contain all 26 alphabet from the English letters. 

Interesting isn't it? 

Swimming at east coast

Yesterday was Extremely amazing night. I totally let me hair down and party all night long. Literally. And i did one of the most crazy thing in my life and that is to jump into east coast shoreline and swim with my shirt and jean. It is crazy and exciting experience of a life time. Now speaking of living life in the moment. :)

We went "red dot" to recce and then to "kiss" for 2 towers and then to "aura" for a tower and then to "gaga" for another tower. Its amazing how a couple of us can hold that much beer in stomach. Total of 4 tower. End up jumping in the sea for swimming. How? Crazy!! i am lucky i hadnt drown myself. It quite quite fun.

Till morning sent xiao yue home on ah zai's car. Dont know from where he pull out a mat to protect his car from our wet body. She suddenly wants to follow us for breakfast and to see if we still waiting for her, she come out of the apartment with towel only :p

She is such a sweet heart to hug me when she is dry and i am wet. I fell asleep on her shoulder cause i am super tired. She basically treat us all 猪杂汤 and fed me all the soup. Looking at the time its already 1030am in the morning so i had to leave for work.

Thanks to ah zai and yiwei, they had been a good friend recently that bring me out of my misery. I am a total relief. There will not be hate because they is no more love. There is only nothingness.

She is going back soon. Gonna miss her :/

Leave ur options open

The dark knight rises is a good movie although didnt make sense at the ending. All nolan movie didnt make sense. I lost myself yesterday night and found some interesting stuff laying around my house. A packet of opened ciggeratte with 20 sticks un smoked. A bottle of 驱风油 and a teeth bite on my arm. I love it when people appreciate my cooking although it is just instant noodle. I love the notion that girl offer to foot the bill although i insisted. There are still great girl around. 11th dec marks the end. A new chapter will unfold.

I didnt know i can still be attractive. I conceal my flamboyant side quite well these few years and all were not lost. I put on my cologne and spike my hair on ends and can still turn girl inside out. And i believe i am slowly recovering my confident, yes it does requires constant practice. These hormones excreted is contagious, it should shall flow through every cell and my collateral.

I realise spending money is a good feeling. I love to spend money still. While i quote myself, "money is wasted unless you spend it".

I realise i had been a good boy too long and this is what happen when a good guy turn bad. No one appreciate a good person. It is just ironic why people are just attracted to someone who dont give a damn.

Life is full of opportunities and around every corners so just leave your options open :)