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I love you forever. It is rubbish


"I love you forever" is the worst joke I ever heard. Especially from people who don't even know what is love.

I never believe it at all, not even once. I strongly believe that love had to be felt rather than to be heard.

How many times we had heard this line of lies and then looking back to see that the one who supposedly to love forever had fell in love with his/her new love. Sometime even we are the person who told these lies. If you stopped loving someone, then you had never even loved them at the first place. All liar and cheater.

Therefore, I never believe in saying this. When you are telling the words "love forever", you are not telling about the future that you will love the person to the very last day of yours and their lives, it is just merely a committed promise that you verbally said to undertake towards the future. And with the saying that "promises are mend to be broken", how come people are so naive to believe in them. Even till the day when we get married, we vowed in front of the pester doesn't even make any different with those that we said over the phone. So wake up and don't be so naive.

Of course, I am not implying that true love doesn't exist. Yes of course there will be true love for everyone some day. But I believe actions speak louder than words. Love can be more passionately expressed compared to just pronouncing these 3 syllabus. So think twice when you had the urge to say "I forever you forever", because it takes a life time of commitment to fulfill.

"Love at first sight", I don't think that can be happening if we reflect deep into the meaning of love. In order to love a person, you had to first known him/her inside out, you been out of sometime, discovering the strength and weakness, and to the point where you can except the person as a whole, overlooking all the flaws and excepting all their weakness. Till then you can look into the relationship and ask yourself, do you really love this person.

How irrational to say you that you can love at first sight? I think "lust at first sight" is more appropriate. Yes. All of us can lust. And lust easily and quickly. I lusting you... Sometime, I just think that "love at first sight" is second most rubbish thing I can hear after "I love you forever".

Lastly, even if you really realize that you loves your girlfriend or wife. Don't abuse the words. These are words that used at a particularly correct moment would generate affections, but too much it will eventually lost it magical effects. Similarly applying to the word "SORRY!" The simple way make "I love you" magical and powerful is by keeping it scarce by rarely using it.
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