Overly apologetic people use apology as a defensive mechanism. After all, if you are really really sorry about what you had done, how can anyone be madder than they should be? They apologied and you sure forgive them right?
Wrong! Overly apolopetic people are irritating.
Apologetic people willing, without question always put themselves in a situtation that they had said something or done something wrong. Inevitablely breaking down their self esteem and made them insecure.
Apologing over almost everything make you feels you can't do anything better of what you perceived had done wrong, or simply perceived that everyone else thinks that you had done something wrong. Being overly perceptive towards other's opinion, leads you believing you are not worth so much and apology is the only correct thing to do. Or maybe to help them get out of awkward situations by simpy admitting faults, its the easiest way out, right? So much so, we wondered. Is it genuine?
Everyone has a different ways of doing things, different approve and different opinion. You way of doing thing isn't wrong just because people disappove it, we don't need to seek approval or sympathy. Show people we at least tried to challenge life, retaliation and confronation. End up you might be the person who is right while all others are wrong.
Face the reality, stand up for yourself. Apology is not always the best policey.
-- Post From My iPhone
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