A lots of time I had always question myself, why am I in the situation that I am in now. Why am I still a student when all my friends are working hard to earn their living outside. Why I made all the wrong moves and landed myself in my situation. Who should I blame? Who influenced me and stuff like that.
If all matters broken down is called atoms then all possibilities and outcomes broken down is called choices. The fact that we choose to turn left instead of right in life affects the overall outcome of my life. Even if its the slightest decision to choose from gives a whole different possibility of result.
Therefore weather if it is an preferable outcome ultimately depend on the choices we made in our life. But ironically, we doesn't know what are the choices that we had to make to result in the most preferable situation we want it to be. So we could only relies on our experiences, our institution to choose our choices in life. If I think I choose this, I will get there then maybe I choose it. But in the end, it doesn't mean that we can get there even if we choose it.
Why do we scared to make decisions? Why do we fear something that we can't even have control over. We had the power to make decision but we don't have the power to make results. So what is the use of procrastinating our decision? Why fear to make choices when we can't even control the end result.
I think that when we facing the junction of choices. Don't hesitate to choose them. Because we don't know what is the outcome until we really choose them. Most importantly, we should not regret over the decision that we had made. I believe everything goes around, comes around. We should not be wasting time regretting, but to make use of the chance to learnt from our wrong mistakes. I believes that the best lesson are those that came from mistake.
I list 2 example of the things that I did that I felt proud off when I made a wrong choices
Detention Barrack:
I was sentenced to 2 week of DB just because I made a stupid decision to AWOL from camp. Going in, marks my record in life, I got the bad record in my file. But what are the uses of regretting in the cell. It can't turn back time. So instead I made used of the time to read religion books to enlighten myself. I see it as an opportunities for me to quit my smoking during the 14 days. So turned out, I achieved something when I came out. I got enlightened in some of the issue I faced in life. I know that I will never had to chances to do my self reflection if I wasn't inside.
Retake my O level 4 times:
I made wrong choice by not studying in school when I was young. I was being lead astray by bad accompany. But now I getting my scholarship and stayed very focus in study. I believe that if I were to study during my ex school days, I wouldn't be able to obtain these result I have now. There because all the exposure I got, all the experience I pick up in these years make me who I am today. I never regretted my choices
I believe in fate. Everything is fated in my l
If all matters broken down is called atoms then all possibilities and outcomes broken down is called choices. The fact that we choose to turn left instead of right in life affects the overall outcome of my life. Even if its the slightest decision to choose from gives a whole different possibility of result.
Therefore weather if it is an preferable outcome ultimately depend on the choices we made in our life. But ironically, we doesn't know what are the choices that we had to make to result in the most preferable situation we want it to be. So we could only relies on our experiences, our institution to choose our choices in life. If I think I choose this, I will get there then maybe I choose it. But in the end, it doesn't mean that we can get there even if we choose it.
Why do we scared to make decisions? Why do we fear something that we can't even have control over. We had the power to make decision but we don't have the power to make results. So what is the use of procrastinating our decision? Why fear to make choices when we can't even control the end result.
I think that when we facing the junction of choices. Don't hesitate to choose them. Because we don't know what is the outcome until we really choose them. Most importantly, we should not regret over the decision that we had made. I believe everything goes around, comes around. We should not be wasting time regretting, but to make use of the chance to learnt from our wrong mistakes. I believes that the best lesson are those that came from mistake.
I list 2 example of the things that I did that I felt proud off when I made a wrong choices
Detention Barrack:
I was sentenced to 2 week of DB just because I made a stupid decision to AWOL from camp. Going in, marks my record in life, I got the bad record in my file. But what are the uses of regretting in the cell. It can't turn back time. So instead I made used of the time to read religion books to enlighten myself. I see it as an opportunities for me to quit my smoking during the 14 days. So turned out, I achieved something when I came out. I got enlightened in some of the issue I faced in life. I know that I will never had to chances to do my self reflection if I wasn't inside.
Retake my O level 4 times:
I made wrong choice by not studying in school when I was young. I was being lead astray by bad accompany. But now I getting my scholarship and stayed very focus in study. I believe that if I were to study during my ex school days, I wouldn't be able to obtain these result I have now. There because all the exposure I got, all the experience I pick up in these years make me who I am today. I never regretted my choices
I believe in fate. Everything is fated in my l
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